Sex is everyone's obsession. At the grocery store, most magazine covers will feature some type of article about better sex as their main feature.
The interesting thing is that these articles are geared towards the younger crowd, the mainly vibrant and healthy folks whose bad habits haven't had enough time to interfere with their body's natural ability to thoroughly enjoy themselves in bed.
This group does not need to spend any time reading the "Cosmopolitan words of wisdom", they have plenty of free time and energy to experiment on their own. Lack of experience? This should be a good reason to read less and get more "hands on" experience.
Men and women are trying to impress their partners using sex to either stroke their own ego, gain power or win a competitive sex game to secure a mate. Sex then becomes about something else, not about intimacy, but about relationship power. A sort of competitive sport performance.
Ouch, why did we get so much in our on way?
Marketing is the science of fulfilling needs with products. The more needs companies create, the more products they sell. Do you have the right clothes, shoes, make up, perfume, follow the the right diet, drive the right car, the right restaurant? The marketing machine creates a vortex of requirements for success. Our minds can become very complicated, needy and insecure places if we buy into this. The more we stay in our own heads, the more disconnected will be from our bodies and our emotions, the places where all the good stuff happens.
What is the best sex you can ever have?
If you ask the question to a bunch of people, the most common answer is: "make up sex". This is the no-bullshit, simply the "I'm-glad-you-are-with-me-'cause-I-really-thought-we-were-toast-five-minutes-ago" feeling at work. Explosive positive emotions for each other makes for the greatest sex. You have to find ways to get there without having to constantly piss off Jane Doe. In other words, skip the fight and go directly to the make up sex, will you?
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