Saturday, September 27, 2014

Hearts and minds

I enjoy playing the role of the gracious host during my summer dinner parties. Curiously enough, my dog also turns up the charm during those events.  She walks around and greets and meets with the best of them.  She is a guard dog by breed and naturally distrustful of strangers, but she takes the cues from me and acts playful and friendly towards the guests.  It is hard to miss the connection between me and my dog Sage. 

During dinner, an old friend of mine asked me if I would buy another dog after Sage is gone.  She mentioned that her dog passed away a few years back and she’d never buy another.  There were many reasons why not to bother, the walks during winter, having to pay for housing during family trips, having to deal with all the maintenance and the expense of caring for the animal. In conclusion, a drain of energy, time and money. 

Interestingly enough, I had to agree with every one of her reasons.  At an intellectual level it all made sense to me.  At that point Sage somehow noticed that we were talking about her.  She came over to sit by my side.  What a beautiful creature she is, caring and perceptive. I completely enjoy the warmth of this bond between us.


Love is when your heart listens to what the mind has to say and still shrugs. 

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